Taylor Swift during the Red era set,
August 3, 2023, SoFi Stadium, L.A.
The
above photo is not mine, but it is from "my" show. During Taylor's
entire concert I didn't pull my phone out once. There is no need. You
can find every clip imaginable online nowadays. Why would I want to look
through a screen when the real life, actual Taylor Swift was right in
front of me (period because that was rhetorical).
*Short summary:
Imagine you could take the abstract concept of joy and make it tangible,
so in the philosophical sense, joy-in-itself. So then, you have this
big squishy blob of actual joy and then you jump into the midde of it:
That was my Taylor Swift show last night! It was in fact, and I mean
this literally, the best concert I have ever been to! (Seriously, you
can stop reading.)
*My Review*
I know many people were expecting a
review of Taylor Swift’s L.A. night one Eras show from me. Given the
frequency of my Taylor posts, I figured I owed you one. Not sure I can
do it justice, but I will try. For some background. I have seen Taylor
Swift twice before this. Once in the “inner-pit” during the Red Tour in
2013. It was at the Staples Center. That was a once-in-a-life experience
for me! The second time was for the 1989 Tour in 2015. I had pretty
good 100-level sets for that one too. The latter was at PetCo Park, a
stadium. I’ve always griped about seeing shows in a stadium. They are
just not that great. I went into this concert last night excited to
see Taylor, but already to trash talk SoFi Stadium, a venue I had never been
to. I want to start out by saying that I stand corrected about the
venue. It was incredible. It almost felt like seeing her in an arena! I
got very blessed to get floor seats. I paid face value, no mark-up. I
was in row 8, but–and this is hard to explain–due to the arrangement of
the rows and stage, if you counted off from the stage, I was 5th row
from the stage! Having looked at the seating chart, I thought my seats
looked kind of far from the main stage, meaning the one the band is on,
but close to the ramp and the middle stage. I was wrong though. It felt
like we were extremely close to both the main stage and the stage
protrusion (middle stage) in front of us! That said, I didn’t look at
screens, I was able to just follow the real, actual Taylor Swift, no
matter where she wandered to. I give this background because, this no
doubt added to my enjoyment level. I was mesmerized the entire time. I
know every single lyric to every single song so I was also “into it”
all. My daughter and I never sat down, standing the entire 3.5+ hours
(that is counting only Taylor alone).
We are big Gracie Abrams
fans so we were in our seats for her promptly at 6:30. Since a lot of
people were not in the venue yet, we noted room up front; thus, we moved
up to in front of the front row for Gracie. I was very interested in
seeing Gracie, but she exceeded my expectations! I was very impressed.
Same for HAIM, we moved up closer than our seats just because we could.
They were fun too. Very enjoyable. I was so happy that SoFi, to my
surprise, had some sort of shade making roof or cover so despite the
heat in Los Angeles, even with the very late, 7:30ish sun-setting, we
were not being baked to death during the openers.
My
expectations for Taylor were high. She exceeded them all! You have to
understand that when Lover came out in 2019, it was my favorite album to
date! I got tickets for Lover Fest in 2020 and I was so looking forward
to screaming Cruel Summer loudly with thousands of fans, so much so
that I can’t even explain how badly I wanted to scream that bridge.
Also, the title track Lover was my favorite song and I really wanted to
hear that live. I do not have the words to express how much that song
means to me. Lover Fest was canceled. I was crushed. As if that pandemic
wasn’t depressing enough! Ugh. So, you need to understand, last night,
the second song was Cruel Summer and the fifth song was Lover! I had
cried twice at that point! So, imagine that 5 songs into a 45-song set
last night, I had already gotten my money’s worth! Yet, I still had no
idea what I was in store for! I knew the general organization of these
Eras shows, but I had personally not really tracked it so that I would
still be kind of surprised.
Before I start this long break down
of the show I just want to say that this concert was a production!
Taylor's band and dancers are incredible. The "show" element itself is
top notch and high caliber. And that is an understatement.
For
the uninitiated among you. This Eras Tour means that Taylor is walking
us through her eras in terms of albums. Not really talked about is that
she doesn’t cover her debut album era in any of these shows, so we get 9
out of 10 of her “eras” in one show. Over 3.5 hours, 45 song set list!
Consider each of the “era” sets in this show like a mini-tour for that
album.
Taylor could have saved the Lover era for later in
the show, but she smartly came out of the gate with it! The second song,
Cruel Summer, could have been an encore. It was at this point it hit me
how good my seats were when Taylor walked to the very edge of the stage
protrusion just 5 rows in front of us and looked straight at us and
screamed the bridge with us. Yea, I cried. Before you judge that, it has
so much more to do with than just some Beatlemania-type Taylor
admiration. It was all the emotion wrapped up in what I’d lived through
the last 4 years, and a moment that was a long time coming! A couple
songs later, she pulls out the Lover guitar and I was like, “Oh, yea,
I’m about to hear the title track!” Yea, so I cried again. I thought the
climax of my emotional catharsis had happened there, but I would be
wrong. I was unprepared for how good The Archer was live.
Highlight of Lover era set: Cruel Summer
Next
up was the Fearless era. Keep in mind that when I rank Taylor’s albums,
I have this album at 9th place out of 10. Well, when she came out with
her Fearless guitar and stared into the title track I was like, “How is
this not my favorite album?” It was incredible. Next up: Do you know
what it is like to scream every word to You Belong With Me with 70,000
fans?!? Well, I do. Pure joy, like the actual embodiment of joy. Yea,
I’m listening to Fearless right now as I type this. She ended with Love
Story, the song that made me a fan in 2010. I have “This love is
difficult, but it’s real” tattooed on my arm. Do you understand how
extraordinary it is that lyrics written by a 17-year-old girl wrote
lyrics that this 54-year-old man considers representative of his own
love story? It’s profound.
Highlight of Fearless era set: Fearless
Next
up was the “evermore” era! Side-note: Her yellow dress for this set was
my favorite outfit. Yes, I like paying attention to the outfits. She
kicked this off by bringing out HAIM to sing a great version of “no
body, no crime,” and they nailed it. This was one of those moments when
one of your non-so-favorite songs goes way up in the rankings because of
the live experience. Another side-note: This happened to me with Treat
People with Kindness by Harry Styles! Ever since seeing it live I adore
it! During this set, “champagne problems” blew me away. My emotional
response to that song was unexpected. Just incendiary! I must mention
that she ended this set with “tolerate it” which was also incredibly
powerful. I mention that because what was about to happen next was
jarring, in a good way. Some of the clueless “bros” I have seen online
like to say, “I don’t see the big deal about Taylor Swift. All her songs
sound the same.” Well, as she transitioned from “tolerate it” to the
next song. I thought about those factless accusations.
Highlight of evermore era: champagne problems
Kicking
into her Reputation era with a snake’s hiss was like an epic jump scare
from a movie! A second into Ready For It, I was kicking myself again
for missing the Reputation tour in May of 2018, but I had commitments
the two nights she was in L.A. that May and I talked myself out of
blowing those off because it was at the Rose Bowl, but I digress! During
this 4-song set, I was asking myself, “How is Reputation not my #1
album?!?!” This entire section rocked! Taylor did some absolutely
beautiful vocal work during Don’t Blame Me and she was right in front of
me. It was stunning! I loved the live versions of both that song and
Look What You Made Me Do with Taylor’s three excellent guitarists (not
counting the bass player!)
Highlight of Reputation era: Delicate
Next
up was the Speak Now era. This 2-song set, lyrically, seemed most
fitting to capture what I was feeling. Her walking out in a beautiful
ball gown, singing Enchanted made me feel like I was going to float away
into the ether! “I’m wonderstruck,” and “This night is flawless, don’t
you ever let it go,” were on point. I was not prepared for what the next
song, Long Live, would do to me! Yea, I cried again: “I said remember
this moment, in the back of my mind.” Unreal. “Tell them how the crowds
went wild.” They did. “Long live all the magic we made” and “I had the
time of my life….” were just too on point. We were 20 songs into this
concert, and Long Live brought the house down. When it ended, I jokingly
said, “Okay, that was great, let’s go home.” Seriously, the show could
have ended there and it would be one of the best shows I have ever seen.
It felt like it could have ended, but no, we had 25 songs left! I’m
pretty sure my emotional catharsis might have hit a crescendo here.
Highlight of Speak Now era: Long Live
After
Speak Now came the Red era. For years this was my favorite album. In
fact, if in 2013, the height of my Red fandom, you would have told me,
“Someday Red will not be your favorite Taylor Swift album,” I would have
thought you were crazier than all of you thought I was when you saw my
hair, but Red is currently ranked 7th out of 10 albums for me. What!?
This set was amazing. Three songs in, during I Knew You Were Trouble,
something hit me like a ton of bricks, something huge! I leaned over to
Kasey and said, “Holy shit! I forgot that we are actually going to
witness the All Too Well 10-minute version live. I was not prepared.
Taylor asked, “Do you have about 10 minutes to spare?” Even though it
was about 10:15 and we were two hours in, we all did! This is the single
greatest breakup song ever written. If you do not know the bridge of
this song by heart, why are you even reading this? Seriously? My
emotional catharsis almost definitely happened here! Fun thing here:
During the song, 22, Taylor Swift had a moment with Kobe Bryant's
daughter, Bianka, giving her *the* 22 hat! It was precious. Side-note:
22, We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together, and I Knew You Were Trouble
are so good! I mean like "I Want To Hold Your Hand" and "She Loves You"
quality pop songs, songs for the ages!
Highlight of Red era: All Too Well (10-minute version)
Enter
my favorite album, “folklore,” with its stunning set piece. I lack the
words to tell you what this pandemic release meant to me. From the
second she opened with “the 1,” like the dragon in Long Live, I was
slayed. We got 7 songs here and I just cannot go into how much I loved
all of them. I loved “the last great american dynasty” so much. I got to
hear the trinity of betty, august, and cardigan live. Let that sink in.
That alone was enough. I got to scream betty with 70,000 Swifties!
Unreal. Please keep in mind that I would have paid to just see a show of
folklore and evermore songs and had been fulfilled.
Highlight of folklore era: shockingly, it was “my tears ricochet” because I would have called “betty” here!
1989
was next! Similar to the Reputation set, I was quickly asking, “How is
1989 not my favorite album ever?” It is pop perfection! Listening to
Style, Blank Space, Shake It Off, and Bad Blood alone had me thinking,
“This is not an artist. This is a living breathing hit factory!” Throw
in the brilliant Wildest Dreams to boot and I was living my wildest
dreams. Pinch me, I’m dreaming.
Highlight of 1989 era: Style
The
next section is reserved for two “surprise songs” and us Swifties have
been following this very closely. I was very happy with the two songs we
got. We got the never ever before played, I Can See You! We also got
Maroon. If you know, you know.
Taylor wisely closes out this
show with her most-recent release, Midnights. In an alternative
timeline, this would’ve, could’ve, should’ve been the Midnights tour and
we all would have been pumped. As my daughter said, “This part is like
an entire concert in itself.” She was right. Kicking off with the
incredibly upbeat Lavender Haze and ending with the re-invigorating
Karma, every one of these seven songs was like a shot in the arm for me.
Just when I thought I couldn’t muster anymore energy, I involuntarily
got more and sang and danced until the final note. Oh, what a joy it is
to sing Karma! Okay, my emotional catharsis most definitely hit full
bloom during Karma!
Highlight of Midnights era: Karma!
I
am 54 years old. I have seen hundreds and hundreds of concerts. This is
not recency bias. I mean this literally. This was my favorite concert
ever! Next Wednesday, August 9th, I will see her again for her final
night in Los Angeles. I will have a very different perspective as I have
seats that are high up in the stadium. I am looking forward to seeing
all the graphics and images from a different distance as I seldom looked
at the screen!
Here's what crazy: This review should be over
now, but I was about to hit "publish" and realized that I had not yet
said anything about the vibe at the show. The music is fantastic, Taylor
is an icon, but that isn't even the only thing that makes this the pure
embodiment of joy. It's the crowd. It's the Swifties. This is not
something I feel I can put into words well, but there is a palpable love
in the air. Example, a guy comes up to me and says, "I have to just
tell you, you're shirt is EVERYTHING!" Then we hug. In short, to usurp a
random 80s song by The Blow Monkeys, "Taylor, I'm digging your scene."